I've been reading this blog and too many times I've been nodding along or talking outloud in agreement with these posts. I'm going to link it here, incase you're interested. And I think the sidebar description of the nature of the posts on this blog is so accurate. It makes me smile.

Blog Message
Many of the posts you will find on this blog are painfully raw. Some of the writing here will be difficult to read. You may find yourself nodding your head in kinship or wiping away a tear as you read the stories that are posted here daily. Together we examine the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of life as a widowed person. The views expressed here are those held by each individual author. We take no credit for their brilliance, and we provide them with the freedom to express their widow journey in words that are uniquely their own.

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